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State Cemetery Grants Program

VA grants to states, territories, and federally recognized tribal governments to establish, expand, or improve veterans' cemeteries, broadening burial options for veterans in underserved areas.

Step-by-step guide

  1. A veteran or family member the cemetery may buryA grant-funded cemetery is run only for veterans, their spouses and surviving spouses, minor children, unmarried adult children who were disabled and could not support themselves, and some parents of service members who died.
  2. The cemetery's own rulesWho may be buried is similar to a national cemetery, but a state or tribal cemetery may add rules such as residency in the state. Each cemetery answers its own questions.

Source: 38 CFR 39.10(a) (opens in new tab); National Cemetery Administration: list of VA grant-funded cemeteries (opens in new tab)

Documents for this benefit: what each is, what it shows VA, and how VA gets it
DocumentWhat it showsHow VA gets itHave it?
DD214 or other discharge papers The veteran's certificate of release or discharge.Service that meets the cemetery's veteran rules, and the details for the headstoneKeep a copy ready for the cemetery. If the family does not have it, request it through VA.gov.Yes
Marriage or birth certificate The record that connects a spouse or child to the veteran.That a spouse or child is family the cemetery may buryKeep a copy ready if a spouse or child is to be buried in the cemetery.Yes
Proof of residence, if the cemetery asks A record showing where the veteran lived, for a cemetery with a residency rule.That the cemetery's own residency rule is metAsk the cemetery which record it takes, then keep a copy ready.Yes

Burial requests go to the state, territory, or tribal cemetery itself. BeneVets does not ask for these papers.

  1. Get free help from a VSO

    Free help: an accredited VSO can file this with you. Find one near you in the BeneVets VSO directory at Find an accredited VSO near you.

    Source: VA.gov: accredited representatives (opens in new tab)

  2. Find a grant-funded cemetery

    Look up state, territory, and tribal veterans cemeteries on the VA list of grant-funded cemeteries.

    Source: National Cemetery Administration: list of VA grant-funded cemeteries (opens in new tab)

  3. Contact the cemetery about its rules

    Call or write the cemetery to ask who it may bury, whether it has a residency rule, and what papers it needs. VA cannot answer these questions for it.

    Source: National Cemetery Administration: list of VA grant-funded cemeteries (opens in new tab)

  4. Gather the papers

    Get copies of the veteran's DD214 and, for a spouse or child, the marriage or birth certificate.

    Source: 38 CFR 39.10(a) (opens in new tab); VA.gov: request your military service records (opens in new tab)

  5. Give the inscription to the cemetery

    The cemetery orders the government headstone or marker as part of arranging the burial, so no separate VA headstone form is needed.

    Source: 38 CFR 38.630(b)(1) (opens in new tab); National Cemetery Administration: burial and memorial benefits (opens in new tab)

The grant goes to the government, not the family

VA gives these grants only to states, territories, and federally recognized tribal governments. No money from this program goes to a veteran or family. What a family gets is a burial option near home.

Source: National Cemetery Administration: Veterans Cemetery Grants Program (opens in new tab); 38 CFR 39.1 (opens in new tab)

Ask the cemetery, not VA

The state, territory, or tribe operates and maintains the cemetery. VA cannot answer questions about a state or tribal veterans cemetery, so contact the cemetery listed on the VA grant-funded cemetery list.

Source: National Cemetery Administration: list of VA grant-funded cemeteries (opens in new tab); National Cemetery Administration: Veterans Cemetery Grants Program (opens in new tab)

National cemeteries are a separate option

VA runs national cemeteries under its own burial rules. A family can compare a nearby national cemetery with a state or tribal one.

Source: VA.gov: burial in a VA national cemetery (opens in new tab); National Cemetery Administration: burial and memorial benefits (opens in new tab)

BeneVets is informational and is not an accredited representative. Free help: an accredited VSO can work through VA benefits with you at no cost. Find an accredited VSO near you

Sources checked October 7, 2026: 38 CFR 39.1 (opens in new tab), 38 CFR 39.10(a) (opens in new tab), 38 CFR 39.10(b) (opens in new tab), 38 CFR 39.10(c) (opens in new tab), 38 CFR 38.630(a) (opens in new tab), 38 CFR 38.630(b)(1) (opens in new tab), National Cemetery Administration: Veterans Cemetery Grants Program (opens in new tab), National Cemetery Administration: list of VA grant-funded cemeteries (opens in new tab), VA.gov: burial in a VA national cemetery (opens in new tab), National Cemetery Administration: burial and memorial benefits (opens in new tab), VA.gov: request your military service records (opens in new tab), VA.gov: accredited representatives (opens in new tab)